Salon Privé Etiquette: The Unwritten Rules

The private room has rules that never appear on a card — how to arrive, how to bet, how to be a guest. Written down, once.

Arrival and the door code

The wharf-side door opens on a code issued with your confirmation — it changes nightly and it's yours alone. Guests arrive individually or in pairs; a group of ten at an unmarked door defeats the purpose of the door.

If you're running late, tell the desk — the code stays valid but the room's rhythm is built around your arrival time. Twenty minutes late without a call is the only arrival faux pas that matters.

At the table

The dealer runs the shoe; the host runs the evening. Both roles are clear and both deserve the same courtesy — the dealer isn't staff to be directed mid-hand, and the host isn't a dealer to be asked for rulings over dinner.

Phones stay in pockets during play. Photos of your own table are fine; the room's rule is that other guests don't appear in your frame. The house's own cameras stay off — discretion cuts both ways.

The room's currency is discretion. Everything else — the cards, the food, the wine — is negotiable.

House manager, salon privé

Money, discreetly

Buy-ins are settled to your account, not at the table — the felt never sees a wallet. Winnings settle the same way at evening's end, or convert to house credit if you prefer.

Tipping is included in the room rate; additional tipping is neither expected nor refused. The dealer keeps what they're given, and the house takes no share of it.

Salon privé private room

What the room expects

Discretion is the room's currency. Who you saw, what was said, what was bet — none of it leaves. The same rule applies to the staff, written into every contract and audited annually.

Beyond that, the room asks only that you treat the evening as what it is: a private room in a serious restaurant, not a casino with catering. The distinction is the entire point.

Key points

If you remember three things

01

The door code is yours alone — arrive individually or in pairs, and call if you're late.

02

Dealer runs the shoe, host runs the evening — both deserve the same courtesy.

03

Money never touches the felt; settlement happens through your account, not at the table.

Questions

Asked about this topic

Yes — your party size is set at booking, and guests are added by name at the door. Members may bring guests to the salon privé; the room belongs to the booking, not the member.
Tell the host at booking. Dealers teach gladly — a quiet tutorial before the evening's first hand is standard practice, not a favour.
Limits are set per room at booking — the salon privé has no posted minimum, and the evening is priced by the room rate, not the action.

The salon desk

House notes

Written by the house manager and senior dealers — the people who run the room and enforce its rules by example.

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